147: Mr ‘Not Perfect’ Is ‘The One’ And Here’s Why

I don’t believe in finding Mr Perfect. Perfect is a mythical construct. It’s the imperfections that make someone interesting and create their life narrative. They are the things that keep your relationship being a relationship and not simply two people being. It is why I go to dates with an open mind, without expectation and […]

146: Wanderlust

I haven’t posted in ages – a whole 10 days to be precise. But I have written a lot of drafts that remain firmly in the draft box for now. I don’t want to post, because there are ethical decisions to make. As well as Andre and Mike, Harry is still on the scene. And […]

145: When Words Mean Fuck All

I went to a wedding this weekend. I knew the bride and I’d heard all the stories about her complicated, fucked up family (and her fiancee’s family too) and how she knew they were going to ruin her day somehow. She merrily picked them all off one by one (but she’s not the only one). […]