Despite the end of MG, Mike and Andre have kept me busy. Two meets each this month. My last was a few days ago. I was down south with my parents for a few days, in part for work and in part for family. But I managed to crowbar a day in a hotel with […]Read More 129: Old Dogs, New Tricks
I’ve written about submariners before. You know the type, those people who disappear on you and occasionally resurface to see if you’re still alive but never want to meet or live so far away there’s no possibility of you meeting. I’ve also blocked a few obvious timewasters, the type who are constantly rearranging their dates […]Read More 128: Into Thin Air – People Who Disappear And Then Come Back Again
Now that I’m getting out more (exercising I mean) I’m getting a lift to my day. I am using the old canal towpaths as many of us do, as a reliable route. I’ve found running by the water gives me more energy. Tramping dirty noisy town centre streets does nothing for me. Mixing with nature, […]Read More 127: Small Things Are Good For Your Wellbeing
Just short of four weeks since I’d last messaged and last heard from MG, I’d stopped accepting that he’d just ghosted me without good reason. Usually, I just move on. You get to know the the exhibitionists, the time wasters, the down right idiots. I didn’t think that was him. He told me that wasn’t […]Read More 126: I Think I Just Missed Out
The day I posted my update saying I was leaving Twitter my WordPress traffic spiked. In fact, it’s the highest number of hits I’ve ever had on a single day since I started this blog last November. I don’t know why this happened. The hits weren’t on my Twitter entry but across the site in […]Read More 125: I Left Twitter – So What Happened?
I stopped trying to construct my narrative when I was in my early twenties. The rules, the successes, the marker points I had planned for myself didn’t happen, because the other part of my personality was too weak to stick to my self made rules and high standards. Instead I went off at a horrible […]Read More 124: Making Your Own Path
As a follow up to post number 117, here are some more thoughts on non-monogamy dating. I get bored of pretty much everything eventually. I’m not shallow, but I crave new things and loath routine. Once I’ve sucked the satisfaction out of a new experience, I move on to other things. That goes for everything […]Read More 123: Non-Monogamy As A Dating Style