155: Changing The Record

It’s been close to a month since I last saw Harry. We haven’t messaged since. A couple of weeks silence on either side isn’t unusual, but, following our last meeting and the explosive post I sent out in reaction to it, I’ve deliberately chosen to not break the silence this time. If I can string […]

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153: I Just Want A Guy Who……

One of the commonest lines I read on Twitter is ‘all I want is to meet a guy who…. and ……’ There’s a bunch of wants, as if you could get all those things in one human being. Yeah right. Relationships are all about compromise and refining and improving. You never get it all from […]

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150: Some Thoughts On Non-Monogamy

Harry’s appearance on the scene three months ago (boy has that gone fast), has had me thinking, unconsciously, about my situation. He has become the most regular of my irregulars, and a reminder of why I am sure I have made the right decision staying away from committed relationships. Everything seems to be slipping into […]

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148: Double Date

The joy of doing what I do, is flexibility. I like not planning. I like surprises, I like a jolt to a dull routine. I hate routine. Last week Mike had told me he was coming to town for business again. We were booked for Monday night. On Sunday Harry had messaged me to say, […]

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146: Wanderlust

I haven’t posted in ages – a whole 10 days to be precise. But I have written a lot of drafts that remain firmly in the draft box for now. I don’t want to post, because there are ethical decisions to make. As well as Andre and Mike, Harry is still on the scene. And […]

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