39: Another Update

You may notice a few names missing. Let’s just say that those who are missing are not being missed. I’ve been thinning out the conversations and dumping the players who just aren’t coming up with the goods. And there are so many of them! There are days when I mindlessly hit like on any pretty […]

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38: Meet Up

Meet Up is a great way to find groups of people with similar interests. It doesn’t always work out but sometimes you find individuals and you really hit it off. Not surprisingly there are a few groups for niche sexual persuasions. Here, there is one for Polyamory and Consenting Non Monogamy. As I was at […]

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37: The Condom Issue – Again

I had my first full on conversation about condoms with one of the guys I am in touch wit,h a few weeks back. I am genuinely confused by the number of men who don’t mention or won’t use condoms because, it seems, they just don’t care. Otherwise they’d mention it, right? Even more so the […]

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36: Verifiable Identity

I should probably have posted this blog a while ago, I began writing it right at the beginning when I started this blog. But I wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing anything crucial and that my methods were sound at least from my point of view. As I often say, this is a learning […]

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35: Dry January

January’s fall out rate was terrible. So many conversations never really got started. Too many people dropped off the radar. Already I’m seeing the same old faces on Tinder and Badoo. The latter has a ‘search for new members only’ setting but I am disappointed in new joiners. Didn’t anyone make a NY Resolution to […]

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A Quick Question

Do I feel bad about blocking someone who’s conversation has got very boring and clearly doesn’t want to meet even though he says he’s met women before. I kind of do but do I? Would you?

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34: Notches On The Bedpost

Is it wrong that I am banking up the information I have on the men I meet? Unwittingly they have become remarkably good fodder for my blog (the whole point of why I started this in the first place but I wasn’t expecting it to this extent). The guys I am attracting are largely free […]

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