114: Reevaluating Again….

I have been looking critically at what I want from a relationship. It isn’t that I haven’t done it before, that’s what lead me down the single and then the CNM route in the first place. It’s transitional. It’s a journey. But more recently, MG had made me look at the longer term, the prospect […]

113: Micro-cheating Or Suspicious Minds?

Micro cheating is another of those horrible new words in the dating blogsphere. But what is micro-cheating and could you be guilty of it? Well, by its broad terms, probably yes. Micro-cheating is defined as any act by someone in a relationship that might suggest they are available. That can include being in communication with […]

112: Defining ‘Relationship’

I have a terrible track record for getting too invested in new relationships too quickly. I am certainly not the only one. It’s one of the main reasons I went down the non-monogamy route after a self-enforced and very pleasurable year single. I needed to learn to do things differently for a while, to distance […]