I have been looking critically at what I want from a relationship. It isn’t that I haven’t done it before, that’s what lead me down the single and then the CNM route in the first place. It’s transitional. It’s a journey. But more recently, MG had made me look at the longer term, the prospect […]Read More 114: Reevaluating Again….
Micro cheating is another of those horrible new words in the dating blogsphere. But what is micro-cheating and could you be guilty of it? Well, by its broad terms, probably yes. Micro-cheating is defined as any act by someone in a relationship that might suggest they are available. That can include being in communication with […]Read More 113: Micro-cheating Or Suspicious Minds?
I have a terrible track record for getting too invested in new relationships too quickly. I am certainly not the only one. It’s one of the main reasons I went down the non-monogamy route after a self-enforced and very pleasurable year single. I needed to learn to do things differently for a while, to distance […]Read More 112: Defining ‘Relationship’
If you’ve been on the dating carousel for a while and it’s not working out, instead of blaming everyone else, maybe it’s time to take a critical look at yourself. A Mighty Love’s Podcast Ep 136 ‘Are Your Dating Rules Hurting You?‘, is worth a listen if you’re open to the idea that it might […]Read More 111: Is Your Dating Style Ruining Your Chances?
I am absolute believer that you make your own fate. I also believe that if you are stuck in a negative thought cycle that you can turn any normal situation into a personal attack. Your train is delayed to work and you think ‘urgh, why does this always happen to me?’ rather than ‘oh it’s […]Read More 110: Breaking Negative Thought Cycles
Today’s post was going to be called ‘Defining Relationship’ on which I reflected about when I start thinking of MG as more than just a date, and also more in general about when you go from dating to official partners. This last few days however, have been very mixed and not ones I want to […]Read More 109: Time For My Back Story
Do you ever get one of those days where you just wonder what on earth you’re doing it all for? I was getting to the end of my stay at my parents, bored and ready to head back home to familiar territory. To my own home, to yet another dull routine, to yet more goddamn […]Read More 108: Shopping Centres, Bored Kids And Double Standards