…or maybe not. I’m running the early stages of a little experiment, based on a brief conversation that went on, over on Twitter not so long ago. So really this post is a trick designed to boost my ratings because it’s the end of the month. Admit it, you were here to read all the […]Read More 99: Sex Sells So Here’s A Taster To Get You Going….
Ghosting is a standard part of online dating life. So why do we make such a big deal about it? I get ghosted. I ghost. If I was interested, if they were interested, we’d message right? I could simply type ‘I’m not interested’ but is that just as bad as ghosting? And how many times […]Read More 98: Ghosting: The Uniform Sign For ‘I’m Not Interested’
It struck me last weekend that me and MG are never going to work. Let’s just say it had already crossed my mind. It finally happened when, after three days of silence, he fixed a weekend to come and see me (that would have been this weekend), then immediately retracted because he’d remembered his son’s […]Read More 97: Thoughts On Parents, Distance Dating And Availability
There was a time when if you said you were using online dating sites, people thought you were odd. Now it’s become the go-to for finding a partner. Monogamy has also changed. As Esther Perel said ‘Monogamy used to mean one person for life, now it means one person at a time.’ Mantorage dating, which […]Read More 96: Alternative Ideals In Main Stream Dating
Maybe it’s something in the air. Maybe it’s the glorious British summer weather that reminds us we want to be out, being sociable, languishing in pub gardens and family barbeques with a partner to show off to everyone or at least not to have to be the only single at the party. But it seems […]Read More 95: Reevaluation Again
When things turn to shit in relationships I often walk away, after a while at least. I am quite skeptical. It comes from experience. And it’s not because I am selfish. It’s because I have learned self worth and self reliance on an epic scale and I find mistrust difficult to shake off. And that […]Read More 94: Making Relationships Better By Being You First
Several of my ‘texationships’ and ‘submariners’ have had a revival of sorts this week but it’s triggered something very negative in me and I just feel wearied by it all. This seems contrary to my last post, but really it isn’t. It’s just turned into one of those weeks. Routine, tight budgeting and no social […]Read More 93: Texationships, Submarining And The Game Goes On And On And On