Non monogamy, for me has less to do with traditional perfect attraction. It is about availability and personality. The type of availability is part of the attraction and in a world where you are less likely to come across people having honest non-monogamous or open relationships, you have to accept some faults in your new […]Read More 135: Non-Monogamy And Different Rules Of Attraction
I have been looking critically at what I want from a relationship. It isn’t that I haven’t done it before, that’s what lead me down the single and then the CNM route in the first place. It’s transitional. It’s a journey. But more recently, MG had made me look at the longer term, the prospect […]Read More 114: Reevaluating Again….
I have a terrible track record for getting too invested in new relationships too quickly. I am certainly not the only one. It’s one of the main reasons I went down the non-monogamy route after a self-enforced and very pleasurable year single. I needed to learn to do things differently for a while, to distance […]Read More 112: Defining ‘Relationship’
A few weeks ago was not a good week. Actually, May has been rubbish and I have largely been a mixed up mess throughout most of the month, swinging between one extreme and the other. This, despite what my blog may tell you. It happens. I blame it all soley on MG. Things came to […]Read More 101: About Turn
It struck me last weekend that me and MG are never going to work. Let’s just say it had already crossed my mind. It finally happened when, after three days of silence, he fixed a weekend to come and see me (that would have been this weekend), then immediately retracted because he’d remembered his son’s […]Read More 97: Thoughts On Parents, Distance Dating And Availability
Distance dating is a double edged sword. If, like me, you enjoy your independence and your ‘me time’, it can be the perfect set up for a relationship that won’t go stale or become too clingy. But it will require the patience of a saint if you also like spontenaiety. Me and MG are both […]Read More 84: Distance Dating
This weekend has been, not an eye opener as such, but a tentative beginning of a new stage in my life. What I have learned is that I am still open to suggestion, relatively easy to influence and that non-monogamous is only a development stage on my journey in doing relationships better. This I already […]Read More 77: MG – What Happened Next