I went to a wedding this weekend. I knew the bride and I’d heard all the stories about her complicated, fucked up family (and her fiancee’s family too) and how she knew they were going to ruin her day somehow. She merrily picked them all off one by one (but she’s not the only one). […]Read More 145: When Words Mean Fuck All
When a date doesn’t work, or a relationship doesn’t last, it’s not an ending. Not to me anyway. For me, everything in life is a stepping stone and that includes relationships because there is no endpoint in life except that you will die. Everything else should be a continuous exploration. To me it is all […]Read More 144: Stepping Stones
Having killed all my dating sites and being preoccupied with things like ‘no work’, I’ve run out of things to say on this particular blog. There’s no reason to post every two days, I just did because I had plenty to write about. Now that I’ve dumped the apps and said everything I need to […]Read More 143: I Can’t Even Think Of A Title For This One
It’s a subject that hoves into view on a regular basis these days. I don’t plan to spend the rest of my life single, but you know what, it could happen so very easily. It’s something I have to plan for. I know people who are older than me and single, or face the potential […]Read More 142: I’m Facing The Reality of Growing Old Without A Support Network – How About You?
I have two weddings to attend in September. I have a non-plus attitude towards marriage. I don’t see the need to slap a contract on someone to make a relationship valid. That’s bullshit as far as I’m concerned. Especially when you look at the stupid amounts of money it involves and how so many people […]Read More 140: Getting Married
The day that I published ‘A State of Happiness‘ I lost my job. Well, one of them. Except it was unfortunately the good paying one. And the only reason I have a completely positive slant on it is because of that previous post. No matter who steps on my toes, I won’t be dragged down. […]Read More 139: Spanner In The Works
I am under no illusion that non-monogamy can undermine any notion of self worth if not done correctly. Mentally you have to be in the right place. As well as this, other peoples perceptions of it may not align with yours and you may choose not to tell people. By that I mean, if someone […]Read More 138: Non-Monogamy And Self Worth