150: Some Thoughts On Non-Monogamy

Harry’s appearance on the scene three months ago (boy has that gone fast), has had me thinking, unconsciously, about my situation. He has become the most regular of my irregulars, and a reminder of why I am sure I have made the right decision staying away from committed relationships. Everything seems to be slipping into […]

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149: One Year Ago Today

It’s a year today since I took up the challenge and joined the online daters. Gianluca was my baptism of fire. I can’t even remember what it felt like back then. Thankfully. It’s not an experience I want to repeat. In total, 50 different men have passed through my dating sphere. Many of them were […]

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148: Double Date

The joy of doing what I do, is flexibility. I like not planning. I like surprises, I like a jolt to a dull routine. I hate routine. Last week Mike had told me he was coming to town for business again. We were booked for Monday night. On Sunday Harry had messaged me to say, […]

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146: Wanderlust

I haven’t posted in ages – a whole 10 days to be precise. But I have written a lot of drafts that remain firmly in the draft box for now. I don’t want to post, because there are ethical decisions to make. As well as Andre and Mike, Harry is still on the scene. And […]

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145: When Words Mean Fuck All

I went to a wedding this weekend. I knew the bride and I’d heard all the stories about her complicated, fucked up family (and her fiancee’s family too) and how she knew they were going to ruin her day somehow. She merrily picked them all off one by one (but she’s not the only one). […]

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144: Stepping Stones

When a date doesn’t work, or a relationship doesn’t last, it’s not an ending. Not to me anyway. For me, everything in life is a stepping stone and that includes relationships because there is no endpoint in life except that you will die. Everything else should be a continuous exploration. To me it is all […]

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