I was watching a slot on a tv programme the other week about managing household finances. One particular point came up with an older gentleman who was worried about his wife should he die before her and what would happen with regards to the finances. She freely admitted that if he died tomorrow, she wouldn’t […]Read More 159: Don’t Be A Dependant
When a date doesn’t work, or a relationship doesn’t last, it’s not an ending. Not to me anyway. For me, everything in life is a stepping stone and that includes relationships because there is no endpoint in life except that you will die. Everything else should be a continuous exploration. To me it is all […]Read More 144: Stepping Stones
I have two weddings to attend in September. I have a non-plus attitude towards marriage. I don’t see the need to slap a contract on someone to make a relationship valid. That’s bullshit as far as I’m concerned. Especially when you look at the stupid amounts of money it involves and how so many people […]Read More 140: Getting Married
I’ve written about submariners before. You know the type, those people who disappear on you and occasionally resurface to see if you’re still alive but never want to meet or live so far away there’s no possibility of you meeting. I’ve also blocked a few obvious timewasters, the type who are constantly rearranging their dates […]Read More 128: Into Thin Air – People Who Disappear And Then Come Back Again
As a follow up to post number 117, here are some more thoughts on non-monogamy dating. I get bored of pretty much everything eventually. I’m not shallow, but I crave new things and loath routine. Once I’ve sucked the satisfaction out of a new experience, I move on to other things. That goes for everything […]Read More 123: Non-Monogamy As A Dating Style
I got involved in an interesting conversation a while back about protecting your identity from the people you are dating. At what point do you go from dating handle to ‘this is my real name and this is me’, and from there forward? And if, like me, your relationships are on the casual side, are […]Read More 119: Protecting Your Identity On Dating Apps
Micro cheating is another of those horrible new words in the dating blogsphere. But what is micro-cheating and could you be guilty of it? Well, by its broad terms, probably yes. Micro-cheating is defined as any act by someone in a relationship that might suggest they are available. That can include being in communication with […]Read More 113: Micro-cheating Or Suspicious Minds?