Up until five months ago, I would fall for someone really easily. I was still quite picky and it didn’t happen a lot, but boy when I fell, I really fell. Now, it doesn’t happen at all. Even when someone ticks the boxes and I want to see them again, I don’t have all those […]Read More 83: Not Falling In Love…For Ages And Ages
Not so long ago Data Analysis Blog wrote an entry about post decision dissonance, something I had never heard of. The post move fall out isn’t rare and I’m sure I have experienced it before without realising it was an actual thing. I know that people often become ill after they move because the change […]Read More 82: My Post Decision Dissonance
The 2nd and 22nd of April are two four month anniveraries for me, the dates I met Andrè on Badoo and Mike on Tinder. The 24th is also my six month anniversary since I started online dating for the first time. They aren’t really things to celebrate. But they are milestones which I use as […]Read More 81: April Anniversaries, New Beginnings And A Possible Return To Seeking Arrangement
…but it doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Every so often on the internet I come across people (girls especially) concerned because they met their new man on Tinder or OkCupid or whatever and have discovered that after months of dating they are still registered. Perhaps still dipping in. And of course what they are thinking is […]Read More 80: Online Swiping Is Habit Forming…
Not so long ago I was engaged in a brief conversation with someone who had a dating conundrum. Question: If you consciously date someone who is cheating on their partner, does that make you untrustworthy in a future monogamous relationship? Or, to put it more simply, if you date someone knowing they are a cheater, […]Read More 79: Does Non-Monogamy Make You A Cheater?
You may have noticed a lack of updates on my millionaire. This is because I haven’t heard from him since 10th April. One of the rules of dating married dudes is the general lack of contact, because they are up to no good. So you get used to the long silences and eventually you forget […]Read More 78: Seeking Arrangement – The Update With No Update
This weekend has been, not an eye opener as such, but a tentative beginning of a new stage in my life. What I have learned is that I am still open to suggestion, relatively easy to influence and that non-monogamous is only a development stage on my journey in doing relationships better. This I already […]Read More 77: MG – What Happened Next