218: Availability

I don’t like using the phrase ‘I’ve been seen’. No one ‘sees’ me. But I was caught up in a forum post recently about whether it’s better to be an OW or just single. There were plenty of opinions. I can’t say either way. I’ve been both. It depends a lot on your state of […]

217: Distraction

Dating someone who isn’t available, in whatever capacity that may be, comes with challenges. One is the time between meetings. Texting is one thing, but I am not here for pen pals. For me, it was one of the pluses of casual dating, that you were never sitting around waiting for a text that never […]

216: Talking About Your Love Life And Time Apart

I wish I could say that dating someone I can’t talk about is frustrating, but it’s been so long since I’ve felt comfortable talking to real people about what I get up to, that it no longer crosses my mind or causes issues. My sex life is my business and no one else’s. Of course, […]