159: Don’t Be A Dependant

I was watching a slot on a tv programme the other week about managing household finances. One particular point came up with an older gentleman who was worried about his wife should he die before her and what would happen with regards to the finances. She freely admitted that if he died tomorrow, she wouldn’t […]

Read More 159: Don’t Be A Dependant

157: End Of The Year

My lack of posts stems from the fact that I just don’t care about dating anymore. I’m home for Christmas and dealing with one day at a time, with the joy of a family with whom I don’t share many similaries, struggles or ethics but it breaks up the routine and gives me something else […]

Read More 157: End Of The Year

156: Dumped

I’ve dumped Twitter again. My state of mind at the moment, is less than joyous, and Twitter is making it far far worse. I can’t do it anymore. Again. It’s too bitter, too resentful, too angry and too self absorbed for me. And the worst thing about it, is that you start behaving in the […]

Read More 156: Dumped

155: Changing The Record

It’s been close to a month since I last saw Harry. We haven’t messaged since. A couple of weeks silence on either side isn’t unusual, but, following our last meeting and the explosive post I sent out in reaction to it, I’ve deliberately chosen to not break the silence this time. If I can string […]

Read More 155: Changing The Record

153: I Just Want A Guy Who……

One of the commonest lines I read on Twitter is ‘all I want is to meet a guy who…. and ……’ There’s a bunch of wants, as if you could get all those things in one human being. Yeah right. Relationships are all about compromise and refining and improving. You never get it all from […]

Read More 153: I Just Want A Guy Who……