‘You’re never to old to learn’, so the saying goes. Or maybe that should say ‘you’re never too old to learn and get your life in order’. I had failed miserably in my 20s and 30s to do relationships right, spending most of time regretting my decisions because of my inappropriate partner choices and above […]Read More 28: Sex And The Single 43-Year Old Woman
It’s time for a ‘brief’ update. I’ve been hesitant in posting this because it’s a bit long. Then I saw something similar by another blogger and thought, to hell with it. There have been plenty of new connections and ships in the night which I haven’t added to my regular posts because I keep running […]Read More 27: Round Up – Too Long???
The only way to get over guys (apart from not getting attached to them in the first place) is to find other guys. On 3rd January I deleted Jem and TJ from my Whatsapp. There were too many old conversations left unresolved cluttering up my inbox and I just don’t have the emotional energy to […]Read More 26: Darren
Who’d have thought finding a place of your own would be so difficult. I may be single (well you know what I mean) and self employed and having enough cash to put down a year’s rent in advance (the North West of England is cheap as chips) shouldn’t really be that difficult. But finding the […]Read More 25: A Space Of Your Own To….
TJ was my first option for New Year’s Eve. I remembered a brief conversation we’d had about how naff NY celebrations always were so I thought I’d give him first dibs before he firmed up any plans. I dangled the carrot to see if he bit. He’d had a couple of vague offers from friends […]Read More 24: Change Of Status And A Disappointing New Year’s Eve
I have never been a fan of the one night stand. You can’t work someone out in one fuck date. If there’s no connection, the sex will be okay, but it isn’t going to be mindblowing and you don’t have time to work out if there really is a connection. Not for me anyway. Whilst […]Read More 23: Why I Hate One Night Stands
The Christmas period heralded several new conversations on Badoo and Tinder. Everyone was a bit bored, including me, but largely unavailable because of family commitments over the festive period and because I was out of my usual zone. I had relocated 171 miles south so I was getting some unrealistic options as I really don’t […]Read More 22: Mike, The Hilton Hotel And A Porsche