156: Dumped

I’ve dumped Twitter again. My state of mind at the moment, is less than joyous, and Twitter is making it far far worse. I can’t do it anymore. Again. It’s too bitter, too resentful, too angry and too self absorbed for me. And the worst thing about it, is that you start behaving in the […]

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155: Changing The Record

It’s been close to a month since I last saw Harry. We haven’t messaged since. A couple of weeks silence on either side isn’t unusual, but, following our last meeting and the explosive post I sent out in reaction to it, I’ve deliberately chosen to not break the silence this time. If I can string […]

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153: I Just Want A Guy Who……

One of the commonest lines I read on Twitter is ‘all I want is to meet a guy who…. and ……’ There’s a bunch of wants, as if you could get all those things in one human being. Yeah right. Relationships are all about compromise and refining and improving. You never get it all from […]

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152: Reminiscing

My mind wandered the other day to how far I’ve come on my journey. I never set out with a plan, I never wanted to feel one way or the other. I just wanted a new experience, a more liberating way of doing things. I wanted to be okay with everything, to not feel the […]

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150: Some Thoughts On Non-Monogamy

Harry’s appearance on the scene three months ago (boy has that gone fast), has had me thinking, unconsciously, about my situation. He has become the most regular of my irregulars, and a reminder of why I am sure I have made the right decision staying away from committed relationships. Everything seems to be slipping into […]

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