The Tinder Podcast had an interesting broadcast right at the end of its last season. It focused on the end game of dating and how you shouldn’t look at every date as future husband material etc. As a rule, I don’t date with long term in mind because I don’t want to get married and […]Read More 117: The Advantage Of Dating When You Don’t Want The Generic Happily Ever After Outcome
Friday night I got an unexpected booty call via kik from Mike coming to my town in 48 hours. It creates that little spark of spontenaiety that I love. My life is remarkably boring. It’s been three months since we saw each other and I haven’t pushed it because I thought I was moving onto […]Read More 116: Partial Clarity On MG And The Reality Of Mike’s Shameless Betrayal
I was listened to a very interesting podcast from the Soul Doctor at the end of April which got me thinking – deeply. It didn’t so much make me challenge my own perceptions of relationships, more like it reinforced the ones I already had and made me realise that I am absolutely not alone in […]Read More 115: Mindful Love Is More Than Monogamy
I have been looking critically at what I want from a relationship. It isn’t that I haven’t done it before, that’s what lead me down the single and then the CNM route in the first place. It’s transitional. It’s a journey. But more recently, MG had made me look at the longer term, the prospect […]Read More 114: Reevaluating Again….
Micro cheating is another of those horrible new words in the dating blogsphere. But what is micro-cheating and could you be guilty of it? Well, by its broad terms, probably yes. Micro-cheating is defined as any act by someone in a relationship that might suggest they are available. That can include being in communication with […]Read More 113: Micro-cheating Or Suspicious Minds?
I have a terrible track record for getting too invested in new relationships too quickly. I am certainly not the only one. It’s one of the main reasons I went down the non-monogamy route after a self-enforced and very pleasurable year single. I needed to learn to do things differently for a while, to distance […]Read More 112: Defining ‘Relationship’
If you’ve been on the dating carousel for a while and it’s not working out, instead of blaming everyone else, maybe it’s time to take a critical look at yourself. A Mighty Love’s Podcast Ep 136 ‘Are Your Dating Rules Hurting You?‘, is worth a listen if you’re open to the idea that it might […]Read More 111: Is Your Dating Style Ruining Your Chances?