I have two weddings to attend in September. I have a non-plus attitude towards marriage. I don’t see the need to slap a contract on someone to make a relationship valid. That’s bullshit as far as I’m concerned. Especially when you look at the stupid amounts of money it involves and how so many people […]Read More 140: Getting Married
The day that I published ‘A State of Happiness‘ I lost my job. Well, one of them. Except it was unfortunately the good paying one. And the only reason I have a completely positive slant on it is because of that previous post. No matter who steps on my toes, I won’t be dragged down. […]Read More 139: Spanner In The Works
I am under no illusion that non-monogamy can undermine any notion of self worth if not done correctly. Mentally you have to be in the right place. As well as this, other peoples perceptions of it may not align with yours and you may choose not to tell people. By that I mean, if someone […]Read More 138: Non-Monogamy And Self Worth
Ditch The Dating Sites is my new most popular posting. It seems a number of people agreed. And yet I find it interesting that, despite this, we’re all still on the dating sites, knowing it probably won’t get us anywhere. I suppose ‘what if’ holds us to it. So are we just doing it for […]Read More 137: Candy Crush Dating
This is not the first time I have considered what happiness is. Even as a teen I contemplated the meaning of life (yep even then I was on a different wavelength). I wanted a purpose that went beyond a 9-5 job, marriage and kids. In fact, not wanting marriage or kids meant that I had […]Read More 136: A State of Happiness
Non monogamy, for me has less to do with traditional perfect attraction. It is about availability and personality. The type of availability is part of the attraction and in a world where you are less likely to come across people having honest non-monogamous or open relationships, you have to accept some faults in your new […]Read More 135: Non-Monogamy And Different Rules Of Attraction
I had an interesting Twitter conversation about type. I was saying how so many guys my age look old enough to be my Dad, have let themselves go, put on a lot of weight, seem to make no effort, do no exercise. Spend their weekends getting pissed. It makes the dating pool when you want […]Read More 134: Is It Wrong To Be Specific About Your Dating Type?