217: Distraction

Dating someone who isn’t available, in whatever capacity that may be, comes with challenges. One is the time between meetings. Texting is one thing, but I am not here for pen pals. For me, it was one of the pluses of casual dating, that you were never sitting around waiting for a text that never […]

216: Talking About Your Love Life And Time Apart

I wish I could say that dating someone I can’t talk about is frustrating, but it’s been so long since I’ve felt comfortable talking to real people about what I get up to, that it no longer crosses my mind or causes issues. My sex life is my business and no one else’s. Of course, […]

195: Mind The Gap

Dating for keeps is like making a business decision. If you are hoping to invest your hopes, your dreams and your future in someone, they have to be right if the investment is going to flourish and grow. Knowing how I used to date, and knowing it never went quite right, I am aware of […]