123: Non-Monogamy As A Dating Style

As a follow up to post number 117, here are some more thoughts on non-monogamy dating. I get bored of pretty much everything eventually. I’m not shallow, but I crave new things and loath routine. Once I’ve sucked the satisfaction out of a new experience, I move on to other things. That goes for everything […]

119: Protecting Your Identity On Dating Apps

I got involved in an interesting conversation a while back about protecting your identity from the people you are dating. At what point do you go from dating handle to ‘this is my real name and this is me’, and from there forward? And if, like me, your relationships are on the casual side, are […]

104: Do Casual Relationships Equal No Self Worth?

I spotted this sweeping statement somewhere on WordPress quite a while ago now. I balk at it. I would say most of my monogamous relationships left me with a strong-to-damaging feeling of no self worth. It’s why it took me over 20 years to get out of that cycle. I had beyond no self worth […]