I like it when an article pops into my inbox that says all the things I don’t have to. This one in particular, sums up all my past problems with relationships. Who knew that it had a name – ’emophilia’.
There was an interesting line in here which said that those with ’emophilia’ were attracted to ‘anyone’ displaying the traits mentioned. That may explain why I say I have ‘a type’ but when I look at all my past partners, there really is no clear similarity between any of them except their unsuitability. It would seem I haven’t changed that much, but I have at least learned to detach my emotions from them and protect my own interests. These two things have been key to me still having a sex life (in my personal opinion).
I am not going to say much more about this link, except that the lessons have been learned in terms of falling too fast. I use a business like approach these days.
And that’s not going to change any time soon.