182: Reblog: Domino – My Boyfriend and I Sleep in Separate Rooms and Absolutely Love It

One of things I always missed in a live in relationship was my own bedroom space. Specifically, my own bed. I like my bed space. I move about a lot. I fidget. I don’t do well stuck next to another human being. I need that alone time away from someone. When I did sleep overs I was always glad when it was over.

So to read this made complete sense. If I ever get into another full time relationship I would want this at the least, or preferably separate homes. I have known couples who maintained separate homes even after getting married and having kids and it intrigued me back at a time when I didn’t realise these were options.

Never feel like you have to conform. It’s about what doing whatever works for you and not what everyone else thinks you should do.

2 thoughts on “182: Reblog: Domino – My Boyfriend and I Sleep in Separate Rooms and Absolutely Love It

  1. I am so much into sleeping separately. I too fidget and bounce and stretch and have periods of insomnia…I feel bad for the man next to me who wants his rest.

    The house is too small, there are no extra bedrooms. Otherwise I would insist. And get myself a king size bed. 😉

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  2. I totally get where you’re coming from. Also, just having down time on your own is so hard when you live with someone. Bedtime is wind down time and you just want to have your own space. I used to have a king size four poster. I loved that bed so much but it’s so impractical for moving house a lot and small bedrooms.

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